Friday, October 21, 2011

Apathy

What has this world turn into? Are people this apathetic? You need not to believe in God to feel compassion or at least to feel human.

Forgive my ranting but I was talking about a 2 year old toddler Yue who died due to hit and run by two vehicles. Apart from the fact that the passing vehicles seem to have intentionally ran into her the most disturbing fact is this: 18 passers by just walked on and ignored the poor little kid. I am also a mom of a two year old little girl and it really brings a lump in my throat when I see news about this little girl. The little girl finally gave her last breathe, perhaps the creator has finally relieved her of the pain that she has gone through and decided that she will be best taken care of to wherever she is right now. I'm really speechless, what type of people would ignore this type of accident...Others claimed they haven't seen her, duh? Anyone would notice a dog ran over by a vehicle and you'll tell me you haven't noticed a kid? Unless your blind, sure you wont sure wont see her. Apart from this incident though, there is another incident that involves hit and run. Try reading this link. http://www.theepochtimes.com/n2/china-news/two-children-crushed-by-trucks-in-one-week-63131.html. See the drivers reaction? Can someone kill him he does not deserve to live. According to a certain Chinese report, one of the reasons why people here have acted indifferently was because those good Samaritans who have helped before in an accident were charged of causing the accident instead of the court viewing them as people who have helped. Geez what kind of judge would decide this way? My desire to personally see the Great wall of China has totally evaporated. Never mind, I'd see them in photographs but I won't dare go there anymore. Well maybe in the future if the breeze has changed.

I just hope that people would at least be more human.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Beliefs Part 1

Its been a while since I've became a universal believer. The concept of religion has been totally warped out of my system. I was baptized as a Catholic and my children are actually baptized under this faith too. I leave the decision to them when they grow up if they want to practice this faith. Indeed there are lots of factors why I have abandoned this faith nor will I ever have the intention of joining other religious affiliations. Let me make this clear though, I am not an agnostic. I believe in a higher power, and personally I address the creator as the Greatest Architect of the Universe.

Going back as to why I chose to be unafiliated is the fact that religions, instead of uniting people creates division. In the world of Christianity with diversed religions its funny to see that one religion is attacking the other, claiming that theirs is the path of salvation. Such irony, Christ taught faith and love and yet his so called followers specially those early Christians have done so much cruelty. All for the sake of Christianity? How many crusades have been launched, in the medieval times sacrificing thousands of lives? Heck again for the sake of christianity? The Roman Catholic faith, my mind is so full of questions about this faith. Lets start with the so called evangelical counsels and describe a radical way to live out the Gospel or most commonly known as the 3 religous vows. The vow of poverty, the vow of chastity and the vow of obedience. Indeed the religous priests are the once who promised to take these vows as compared to the Diocesan priests who instead promised to to lead a celibate life; to respect and obey their diocesan bishop; and to live a simple lifestyle. Simple lifestyle indeed when the Vatican has millions of dollars worth of treasure right under their roof.... when the CBCP in Manila has shares of stocks with San Miguel Corp and other mining industries in the Philippines and Celibate life indeed when several diocesan priests have been convicted in different parts of the world for sexually molesting numerous citizens. How much more ironic will this get?

Okay lets travel back in time. Anybody who has been to elementary school would have known Copernicus and Galileo. Galileo Galilei is one of the victims of Roman Catholic Faith. Didnt the church ridicule him for pointing out the truth that our solar system is in Geocentric model where Sun is the center of the solar system and all the 9 planets including the Earth revolves around the sun instead of their most favored Geocentric model. (currently there are only 8 planets, Pluto being taken out from the list). During his second trial this decision came out In February 1616, a special Theological Advisory Committee determined that the heliocentric theory contradicts the Catholic faith. With regard to the claim that the sun lies motionless at the center of the world, the committee determined that it is: "Philosophically (i.e., scientifically) foolish and absurd, and is considered official heresy because it explicitly contradicts the meaning of Scripture in many places, in terms of the verbal significance of the words and in terms of the accepted interpretation and understanding of the Church Fathers and the Doctors of Theology."The claim that the earth revolves around the sun was considered only "a mistake of faith."

Now lets try to set our feet back to our motherland. Remember that Philippines is the only Catholic country in Asia. How did Catholicism affects this country. HAve you ever heard this line? " Nung panahon ng Kastila lahat ng kayang abutin ng mata ng prayle at mga pari na lupa sa kanila yun." How the hell did the Catholic church get to own lands in this part of the country? Oh well didnt they consider our ancestors Indio? I was just wondering why Rizal has written Noli Me Tangere and El Filibusterismo? Some thoughts? Oh maybe because these priests are abusing their powers to the nth power? How come there are children of priests? I thought they have vow of celibacy, whether your a part of diocesian or religous order?

Currently, the Catholic church is being so active again with regard to the issue of RH Bill. Just wondering, priests havent got their own family, they havent got wife and children to look after directly, so how would they know the trials of having a family life? I know that the church leaders are there to guide their people... their people as NOT everyone in this country is CATHOLIC. The constitution mandates the separation of church and state and yet they have meddled so much with politics. They've been so active cleaning other backyard's dirt and yet they can't even manage their own. Issues about priests sexually molesting their constituents have already been widely publicized, why dont you try to fix them first?

Wondering again, had Christ been alive what would he do to these people?

to be continued......

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

RH Bill No. 5043 Full Text

HOUSE BILL NO. 5043

AN ACT PROVIDING FOR A NATIONAL POLICY ON REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH, RESPONSIBLE PARENTHOOD AND POPULATION DEVELOPMENT, AND FOR OTHER PURPOSES

Be it enacted by the Senate and the House of Representatives of the Philippines in Congress assembled:

SECTION 1. Short Title. – This Act shall be known as the “Reproductive Health and Population Development Act of 2008“.

SEC. 2. Declaration of Policy. – The State upholds and promotes responsible parenthood, informed choice, birth spacing and respect for life in conformity with internationally recognized human rights standards.

The State shall uphold the right of the people, particularly women and their organizations, to effective and reasonable participation in the formulation and implementation of the declared policy.

This policy is anchored on the rationale that sustainable human development is better assured with a manageable population of healthy, educated and productive citizens.

The State likewise guarantees universal access to medically-safe, legal, affordable and quality reproductive health care services, methods, devices, supplies and relevant information thereon even as it prioritizes the needs of women and children,among other underprivileged sectors.

SEC. 3. Guiding Principles. – This Act declares the following as basic guiding principles:

a. In the promotion of reproductive health, there should be no bias for either modern or natural methods of family planning;

b. Reproductive health goes beyond a demographic target because it is principally about health and rights;

c. Gender equality and women empowerment are central elements of reproductive health and population development;

d. Since manpower is the principal asset of every country, effective reproductive health care services must be given primacy to ensure the birth and care of healthy children and to promote responsible parenting;

e. The limited resources of the country cannot be suffered to, be spread so thinly to service a burgeoning multitude that makes the allocations grossly inadequate and effectively meaningless;

f. Freedom of informed choice, which is central to the exercise of any right, must be fully guaranteed by the State like the right itself;

g. While the number and spacing of children are left to the sound judgment of parents and couples based on their personal conviction and religious beliefs, such concerned parents and couples, including unmarried individuals, should be afforded free and full access to relevant, adequate and correct information on reproductive health and human sexuality and should be guided by qualified State workers and professional private practitioners;

h. Reproductive health, including the promotion of breastfeeding, must be the joint concern of the National Government and Local Government Units(LGUs);

i. Protection and promotion of gender equality, women empowerment and human rights, including reproductive health rights, are imperative;

j. Development is a multi-faceted process that calls for the coordination and integration of policies, plans, programs and projects that seek to uplift the quality of life of the people, more particularly the poor, the needy and the marginalized;

k. Active participation by and thorough consultation with concerned non-government organizations (NGOs), people’s organizations (POs) and communities are imperative to ensure that basic policies, plans, programs and projects address the priority needs of stakeholders;

l. Respect for, protection and fulfillment of reproductive health rights seek to promote not only the rights and welfare of adult individuals and couples but those of adolescents’ and children’s as well; and

m. While nothing in this Act changes the law on abortion, as abortion remains a crime and is punishable, the government shall ensure that women seeking care for post-abortion complications shall be treated and counseled in a humane, non-judgmental and compassionate manner.

SEC. 4. Definition of Terms. – For purposes of this Act, the following terms shall be defined as follows:

a. Responsible Parenthood – refers to the will, ability and cornmitTrient of parents to respond to the needs and aspirations of the family and children more particularly through family planning;

b. Family Planning – refers to a program which enables couple, and individuals to decide freely and responsibly the number and spacing of their children and to have the information and means to carry out their decisions, and to have informed choice and access to a full range of safe, legal and effective family planning methods, techniques and devices.

c. Reproductive Health -refers to the state of physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity, in all matters relating to the reproductive system and to its funcitions and processes. This implies that people are able to have a satisfying and safe sex life, that they have the capability to reproduce and the freedom to decide if, when and how often to do so, provided that these are not against the law. This further implies that women and men are afforded equal status in matters related to sexual relations and reproduction.

d. Reproductive Health Rights – refers to the rights of individuals and couples do decide freely and responsibly the number, spacing and timing of their children; to make other decisions concerning reproduction free of discrimination, coercion and violence; to have the information and means to carry out their decisions; and to attain the highest standard of sexual and reproductive health.

e. Gender Equality – refers to the absence of discrimination on the basis of a person’s sex, in opportunities, allocation of resources and benefits, and access to services.

f. Gender Equity – refers to fairness and justice in the distribution of benefits and responsibilities between women and men, and often requires. women-specific projects and programs to eliminate existing inequalities, inequities, policies and practices unfavorable too women.

g. Reproductive Health Care – refers to the availability of and access to a full range of methods, techniques, supplies and services that contribute to reproductive and sexual health and well-being by preventing and solving reproductive health-related problems in order to achieve enhancement of life and personal relations. The elements of reproductive health care include:

1. Maternal, infant and child health and nutrition;

2. Promotion of breastfeeding;

3. Family planning information end services;

4. Prevention of abortion and management of post-abortion complications;

5. Adolescent and youth health;

6. Prevention and management of reproductive tract infections (RTIs), HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmittable infections (STIs);

7. Elimination ofviolence against women;

8. Education and counseling on sexuality and sexual and reproductive health;

9. Treatment of breast and reproductive tract cancers and other gynecological conditions;

10. Male involvement and participation in reproductive health;,

11. Prevention and treatmentof infertility and sexual dysfunction; and

12. Reproductive health education for the youth.

h. Reproductive Health Education – refers to the process of acquiring complete, accurate and relevant information on all matters relating to the reproductive system, its functions and processes and human sexuality; and forming attitudes and beliefs about sex, sexual identity, interpersonal relationships, affection, intimacy and gender roles. It also includes developing the necessary skills do be able to distinguish between facts and myths on sex and sexuality; and critically evaluate. and discuss the moral, religious, social and cultural dimensions of related sensitive issues such as contraception and abortion.

i. Male involvement and participation – refers to the involvement, participation, commitment and joint responsibility of men with women in all areas of sexual and reproductive health, as well as reproductive health concerns specific to men.

j. Reproductive tract infection (RTI) – refers do sexually transmitted infections, sexually transmitted diseases and other types of-infections affecting the reproductive system.

k. Basic Emergency Obstetric Care – refers to lifesaving services for maternal complication being provided by a health facility or professional which must include the following six signal functions: administration of parenteral antibiotics; administration of parrenteral oxyttocic drugs; administration of parenteral anticonvulsants for pre-eclampsia and iampsia; manual removal of placenta; and assisted vaginal delivery.

l. Comprehensive Emergency Obstetric Care – refers to basic emergency obstetric care plus two other signal functions: performance of caesarean section and blood transfusion.

m. Maternal Death Review – refers to a qualitative and in-depth study of the causes of maternal death with the primary purpose of preventing future deaths through changes or additions to programs, plans and policies.

n. Skilled Attendant – refers to an accredited health professional such as a licensed midwife, doctor or nurse who has adequate proficiency and the skills to manage normal (uncomplicated) pregnancies, childbirth and the immediate postnatal period, and in the identification, management and referral of complication in women and newborns.

o. Skilled Attendance – refers to childbirth managed by a skilled attendant under the enabling conditions of a functional emergencyobstetric care and referral system.

p. Development – refers to a multi-dimensional process involving major changes in social structures, popular attitudes, and national institutions as well as the acceleration of economic growth, the reduction of inequality and the eradication of widespread poverty.

q. Sustainable Human Development – refers to the totality of the process of expending human choices by enabling people to enjoy long, healthy and productive lives, affording them access to resources needed for a decent standard of living and assuring continuity and acceleration of development by achieving a balance between and among a manageable population, adequate resources and a healthy environment.

r. Population Development – refers to a program that aims to: (1) help couples and parents achieve their desired family size; (2) improve reproductive health of individuals by addressing reproductive health problems; (3) contribute to decreased maternal and infant mortality rates and early child mortality; (4) reduce incidence of teenage pregnancy; and (5) enable government to achieve a balanced population distribution.

SEC. 5. The Commission on Population (POPC0NI). – Pursuant to the herein declared policy, the Commission on Population (POPCOM) shall serve as the central planning, coordinating, implementing and monitoring body for the comprehensive and integrated policy on reproductive health and population development. In the implementation of this policy, POPCOM, which shall be an attached agency of the Department of Health (DOH) shall have the following functions:

a. To create an enabling environment for women and couples to make an informed choice regarding the family planning method that is best suited to their needs and personal convictions;

b. To integrate on a continuing basis the interrelated reproductive health and population development agenda into a national policy, taking into account regional and local concerns;

c. To provide the mechanism to ensure active and full participation of the private sector and the citizenry through their organizations in the planning and implementation of reproductive health care and population development programs and projects;

d. To ensure people’s access to medically safe, legal, quality and affordable reproductive health goods and services;

e. To facilitate the involvement and participation of non-government organizations and the private sector in reproductive health care service delivery and in the production, distribution and delivery of quality reproductive: health and family planning supplies and commodities to make them accessible and affordable to ordinary citizens;

f. To fully implement the Reproductive Health Care Program with the following components:

(1) Reproductive health education including but not limited to counseling on the full range of legal and medically-safe family planning methods including surgical methods;

(2) Maternal, pen-natal and post-natal education, care and services;

(3) Promotion of breastfeeding;

(4) Promotion of male involvement, participation and responsibility in reproductive health as well as other reproductive health concerns of men;

(5) Prevention of abortion and management of post-abortion complications; and

(6) Provision of information and services addressing the reproductive health needs of the poor, senior citizens, women in prostitution, differently-abled persons, and women and children in war AND crisis situations.

g. To ensure that reproductive health services are delivered with a full range of supplies, facilities and equipment and that service providers are adequately trained for reproductive health care;

h. To endeavor to furnish local Family Planning Offices with appropriate information and resources to keep the latter updated on current studies and research relating to family planning, responsible parenthood, breastfeeding and infant nutrition;

i. To direct all public hospitals to make available to indigent mothers who deliver their children in these government hospitals, upon the mothers request, the procedure of ligation without cost to her;

j. To recommend the enactment of legislation and adoption of executive measures that will strengthen and enhance the national policy on reproductive health and population development;

k. To ensure a massive and sustained information drive on responsible parenthood and on all methods and techniques to prevent unwanted, unplanned and mistimed pregnancies, it shall release information bulletins on the same for nationwide circulation to all government departments, agencies and instrumentalities, non-government organizations and the private sector, schools, public and private libraries, tri-media outlets, workplaces, hospitals and concerned health institutions;

l. To strengthen the capacities of health regulatory agencies to ensure safe, high-quality, accessible, and affordable reproductive health services and commodities with the concurrent strengthening and enforcement of regulatory mandates and mechanisms;

m. To take active steps to expand the coverage of the National Health Insurance Program (NHIP), especially among poor and marginalized women, to include the full range of reproductive health services and supplies as health insurance benefits; and

n. To perform such other functions necessary to attain the purposes of this Act.

The membership of the Board of Commissioners of POPCOM shall consist of the heads of the following AGENCIES:

1. National Economic DevelopmentAuthority (VEDA)
2. Department of Health (DOH)
3. Department of Social Welfare and Development (DSWD)
4. Department of Labor and Employment (DOLE)
5. Department of Agriculture (DA)
6. Department of the Interior and Local Government (DILG)
7. Department of Education (DepEd)
8. Department of Environment and Natural Resources (DENR)
9. Commission on Higher Education (CHED)
10. University of the Philippines Population Institute (UPPI)
11. Union of Local Authorities of the Philippines (ULAFI)
12. National Anti-Poverty Commission (NAPQ
13. National Commission on the Role of Filipino Women (NCRFW)
14. National Youth Commission (NYC)

In addition to the aforementioned, members, there shall be three private sector representatives to the Board of Commissioners of POPCOM who shall come from NGOs. There shall be one (1) representative each from women, youth and health sectors who have a proven track record of involvement in the promotion of reproductive health. These representatives shall be nominated in a process determined by the above-mentioned sectors, and to be appointed by the President for a term of three (3)years.

SEC. 6. Midwives for Skilled Attendance. -Every city and municipality shall endeavor to employ adequate number of midwives or other skilled attendants to achieve a minimum ratio of one (1)for every one hundred fifty (150) deliveries per year, to be based on the average annual number of actual deliveries or live births for the past two years.

SEC. 7. Emergency Obstetric Care. – Each province. and city shall endeavor to ensure the establishment and operation of hospitals with adequate and qualified personnel that provide emergency obstetric care. For every 500,000 population, there shall be at least one (1) hospital for comprehensive emergency obstetric care and four (4) hospitals for basic emergency obstetric care.

SEC. 8. Maternal Death Review. – All LGUs, national and local government hospitals, and other public health units shall conduct maternal death review in accordance with the guidelines to be issued by the DOH in consultation with the POPCOM.

SEC. 9. Hospital-Based Family Planning. -Tubal ligation, vasectomy, intrauterine device insertion and other family planning methods requiring hospital services shall be available in all national and local government hospitals, except: in specialty hospitals which may render such services on an optional basis. For indigent patients, such services shall be fully covered by PhilHealth insurance and/or government financial assistance.

SEC. 10. Contraceptives as Essential Medicines. – Hormonal contraceptives, intrauterine devices, injectables and other allied reproductive health products and supplies shall be considered under the category of essential medicines and supplies which shall form part of the National Drug Formulary and the same shall be included in the regular purchase of essential medicines and supplies of all national and lord hospitals and other government health units.

SEC. 11. Mobile Health Care Service. -Each Congressional District shall be provided with a van to be known as the Mobile Health Care Service (MHOS) to deliver health care goods and services to its constituents, more particularly to the poor and needy, as well as disseminate knowledge and information on reproductive health: Provided, That reproductive health education shall be conducted by competent and adequately trained persons preferably reproductive health care providers: Provided, further, That the full range of family planning methods, both natural and modern, shall be promoted.

The acquisition, operation and maintenance of the MRCS shall be funded from the Priority Development Assistance Fund (PDAF) of each Congressional District.

The MHCS shall be adequately equipped with a wide range of reproductive health care materials and information dissemination devices and equipment, the latter including but not limited to, a television set for audio-visual presentation.

SEC. 12. Mandatory Age-Appropriate Reproductive Health Education. – Recognizing the importance of reproductive health rights in empowering the youth and developing them into responsible adults, Reproductive Health Education in an age-appropriate manner shall be taught by adequately trained teachers starting from Grade 5 up to Fourth Year High School. In order to assure the prior training of teachers on reproductive health, the implementation of Reproductive Health Education shall commence at the start of the school year one year following the effectivity of this Act. The POPCOM, in coordination with the Department of Education, shall formulate the Reproductive Health Education curriculum, which shall be common to both public and private schools and shall include related population and development concepts in addition to the following subjects and standards:

a. Reproductive health and sexual rights;

b. Reproductive health care and services;

c. Attitudes, beliefs and values on sexual development, sexual behavior and sexual health;

d. Proscription and hazards of abortion and management of post-abortion complications;

e. Responsible parenthood.

f. Use and application of natural and modern family planning methods to promote reproductive health, achieve desired family size and prevent unwanted, unplanned and mistimed pregnancies;

g. Abstinence before marriage;

h. Prevention and treatment of HIV/AIDS and other, STIs/STDs, prostate cancer, breast cancer, cervical cancer and other gynecological disorders;

i. Responsible sexuality; and

j. Maternal, peri-natal and post-natal education, care and services.

In support of the natural, and primary right of parents in the rearing of the youth, the POPCOM shall provide concerned parents with adequate and relevant scientific materials on the age-appropriate topics and manner of teaching reproductive health education to their children.

In the elementary level, reproductive health education shall focus, among others, on values formation.

Non-formal education programs shall likewise include the abovementioned reproductive Health Education.

SEC. 13. Additional Duty of Family Planning 0ffice. – Each local Family Planning Office shall furnish for free instructions and information on family planning, responsible parenthood, breastfeeding and infant nutrition to all applicants for marriage license.

SEC. 14. Certificate of Compliance. – No marriage license shall be issued by the Local Civil Registrar unless the applicants present a Certificate of Compliance issued for free by the local Family Planning Office certifying that they had duly received adequate instructions and information on family planning, responsible parenthood, breastfeeding and infant nutrition.

SEC. 15. Capability Building of Community-Based Volunteer Workers. – Community-based volunteer workers, like but not limited to, Barangay Health Workers, shall undergo additional and updated training on the delivery of reproductive health care services and shall receive not less than 10% increase in honoraria upon successful completion of training. The increase in honoraria shall be funded from the Gender and Development (GAD) budget of the National Economic and Development Authority (NEDA), Department of Health (DOH) and the Department of the Interior and Local Government (DILG).

SEC. 16. Ideal Family Size. – The State shall assist couples, parents and individuals to achieve their desired family size within the context of responsible parenthood for sustainable development and encourage them to have two children as the ideal family size. Attaining the ideal family size is neither mandatory nor compulsory. No punitive action shall be imposed on parents having more than two children.

SEC. 17. Employers’ Responsibilities. – Employers shall respect the reproductive health rights of all their workers. Women shall not be discriminated against in the matter of hiring, regularization of employment status or selection for retrenchment.

All Collective Bargaining Agreements (CBAs) shall provide for the free delivery by the employer of reasonable quantity of reproductive health care services, supplies and devices to all workers, more particularly women workers. In establishments or enterprises where there are no CBAs or where the employees are unorganized, the employer shall have the same obligation.

SEC. 18. Support of Private and Non-government Health Care Service Providers. – Pursuant to Section 5(b) hereof, private reproductive health care service providers, including but not limited to gynecologists and obstetricians, are encouraged to join their colleagues in non-government organizations in rendering such services free of charge or at reduced professional fee rates to indigent and low income patients.

SEC. 19. Multi-Media Campaign. – POPCOM shall initiate and sustain an intensified nationwide multi-media campaign to raise the level of public awareness on the urgent need to protect and promote reproductive health and rights.

SEC. 20. Reporting Requirements. – Before the end of April of each year,the DOH shall submit an annual report to the President of the Philippines, the President of the Senate and the Speaker of the House of Representatives on a definitive and comprehensive assessment of the implementation of this Act and shall make the necessary recommendations for executive and legislative action. The report shall be posted in the website of DOH and printed copies shall be made available to all stakeholders.

SEC. 21. Prohibited Acts. – The following acts are prohibited:

a) Any health care service provider, whether public or private, who shall:

1. Knowingly withhold information or impede the dissemination thereof, and/or intentionally provide incorrect information regarding programs and services on reproductive health including the right to informed choice and access to a full range of legal, medically-safe and effective family planning methods;

2. Refuse to perform voluntary ligation and vasectomy and other legal and medically-safe reproductive health care services on any person of legal age on the ground of lack of spousal consent or authorization.

3. Refuse to provide reproductive health care services to an abused minor, whose abused condition is certified by the proper official or personnel of the Department of Social Welfare and Development (DSWD) or to duly DSWD-certified abused pregnant minor on whose case no parental consent is necessary.

4. Fail to provide, either deliberately or through gross or inexcusable negligence, reproductive health care services as mandated under this Act, the Local Government Code of 1991, the Labor Code, and Presidential Decree 79, as amended; and

5. Refuse to extend reproductive health care services and information on account of the patient’s civil status, gender or sexual orientation, age, religion, personal circumstances, and nature of work; Provided, That all conscientious objections of health care service providers based on religious grounds shall be respected: Provided, further, That the conscientious objector shall immediately refer the person seeking such care and services to another health care service provider within the same facility or one which is conveniently accessible: Provided, finally, That the patient is not in an emergency or serious case as defined in RA 8344 penalizing the refusal of hospitals and medical clinics to administer appropriate initial medical treatment and support in emergency and serious cases.

b) Any public official who prohibits or restricts personally or through a subordinate the delivery of legal and medically-safe reproductive health care services, including family planning;

c) Any employer who shall fail to comply with his obligation under Section 17 of this Act or an employer who requires a female applicant or employee, as a condition for employment or continued employment, to involuntarily undergo sterilization, tubal ligation or any other form of contraceptive method;

d) Any person who shall falsify a certificate of compliance as required in Section 14 of this Act; and

e) Any person who maliciously en ges in disinformation about the intent or provisions of this Act.

SEC. 22. Penalties. – The proper city or municipal court shall exercise jurisdiction over violations of this Act and the accused who is found guilty shall be sentenced to an imprisonment ranging from one (1) month to six (6) months or a fine ranging from Ten Thousand Pesos (P10,000.00) to Fifty Thousand Pesos (P50,000.00) or both such fine and imprisonment at the discretion of the court. If the offender is a juridical person, the penalty shall be imposed upon the president, treasurer, secretary or any responsible officer. An offender who is an alien shall, after service of sentence, be deported immediately without further proceedings by the Bureau of Immigration. An offender who is a public officer or employee shall suffer the accessory penalty of dismissal from the government service.

Violators of this Act shall be civilly liable to the offended party in such amount at the discretion of the proper court.

SEC. 23. Appropriations. – The amounts appropriated in the current annual General Appropriations Act for reproductive health and family planning under the DOH and POPCOM together with ten percent (10%) of the Gender and Development (GAD) budgets of all government departments, agencies, bureaus, offices and instrumentalities funded in the annual General Appropriations Act in accordance with Republic Act No. 7192 (Women in Development and Nation-building Act) and Executive Order No. 273 (Philippine Plan for Gender Responsive Development 1995-2025) shall be allocated and utilized for the implementation of this Act. Such additional sums as may be necessary for the effective implementation of this Act shall be Included in the subsequent years’ General Appropriations Acts.

SEC. 24. Implementing Rules and Regulations. – Within sixty (60) days from the effectivity of this Act, the Department of Health shall promulgate, after thorough consultation with the Commission on Population (POPCOM), the National Economic Development Authority (NEDA), concerned non-government organizations (NGOs) and known reproductive health advocates, the requisite implementing rules and regulations.

SEC. 25. Separability Clause. – If any part, section or provision of this Act is held invalid or unconstitutional, other provisions not affected thereby shall remain in full force and effect.

SEC. 26. Repealing Clause. – All laws, decrees, Orders, issuances, rules and regulations contrary to or inconsistent with the provisions of this Act are hereby repealed, amended or modified accordingly.

SEC. 27. Effectivity. – This Act shall take effect fifteen (15) days after its publication in at least two (2) newspapers of national circulation.

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Just another rant!

Long weekend, yup supposedly, since yesterday is US Labor Day, unfortunately situation has really a funny way of interfering with me. Long weekend but not rested. Yup got kids to take care of and chores to be done plus the nanny has taken her day off. I was suppose to go out last Saturday unfortunately due to the situation, that has been put off too. Ganda di ba. Just imagine this... I do work at night from 10pm to 7 am and during the days I look after the kids. The nanny has to accompany either Tyke or Bobet to school. Bottom line? I sleep around 5 pm and wake up at 9 pm... Yes what a great daily routine. Good thing nga di pa bumibigay ang katawan ko. Nakakapagod na kasi. Imagine sa payat kong to ah, I barely sleep at 4 hours a day. DI lang yun, lots to look after pa, bills to pay, budget na kailangang pagkasiyahin ay super nakakainis na at minsan, nakaksawa na rin ung buhay na ganito. Ok lang sana kung yun lang, fuck shet pati personal kong buhay di rin ok. Oh yeah so much for the happily ever after romance that I have dreamt about when I was a kid. I suck. Naiinis ako sa sarili ko. I must do something about this or else I will always be grumpy Ane. Jaean and I have separated months ago, unfortunately up until this time magkasama pa din kami thus both of us can't move on. I know the kids should highly be considered, but then again dapat ba kids lang? Panu naman ung personal happiness naming dalawa? We both know we can no longer work it out. I am just thinking, cge at this point of time we are thinking about the kids welfare, but how about when the time comes that they will set forth with their own lives? What will happen sa akin? There are lots of cases of broken families and I know that most kids have turned out na di okay, still there are some who have grown out gracefully out of that worst situation. No matter how old or young we are, it is no doubt that separation can bring out great level of anxieties and disappointment, still they can cope. I guess one way to settle this is to settle it amicably. Months ago kung matigas ulo ko wanting them for myself alone, now after careful consideration, I realized something else may work out well. As in divide everything in 50's. Ok since pareho naman kaming parents, the kids would want to have us both for themselves. So why not give them what they want? Say buong one week sa akin and next week naman saDaddy nila, then the next sa akin ulit. Fair di ba? Sa haws ko ng buong week, then sa haws naman nia the next week. Special occasion for the kids we can both be present. Fifty fifty din sa lahat ng expenses ng kids para fair and square. At least this way equally divided and shared. This way din we can both have time para sa mga sarili naming happiness as well as finding the person whom we can spend the rest of our lives with. I'm growing old. I could not deny that fact. The kids are also growing and so are the times. It is changing fast. Don't get me wrong. I do love my kids so much, but at this time I am also thinking about what will happen to me when they are no longer around. At the setting sun of my life I just want to enjoy my life, talking, joking or perhaps watching the sun set along with my better half. Life is about love after all. In spite of the failure that I have gone through, I've never felt cynical about love. In fact it even made me realize that if I have tried to work things out to a love that was not meant for me, how much happiness would I feel when the right one comes along? Haayy grabe Im on my late 20's and yet stuck up pa din ako sa dilemna na to. Supposedly by this time I am working on maintaining and enjoying a happy family. Well katangahan ko din to. Anyway, find a way to really find the best solution I must or in hell will I find myself in rot. Wag naman sana.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Sonnet 14 by Elizabeth Barrett Browning


This is for the man who is destined to love me... how I want to be loved? Read and understand this.

If thou must love me
by Elizabeth Barrett Browning

If thou must love me, let it be for nought
Except for love's sake only. Do not say,
"I love her for her smile—her look—her way
Of speaking gently,—for a trick of thought
That falls in well with mine, and certes brought
A sense of pleasant ease on such a day"—
For these things in themselves, Belovèd, may
Be changed, or change for thee—and love, so wrought,
May be unwrought so. Neither love me for
Thine own dear pity's wiping my cheeks dry:
A creature might forget to weep, who bore
Thy comfort long, and lose thy love thereby!
But love me for love's sake, that evermore
Thou mayst love on, through love's eternity.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Awakened

So this is how it feels... after the longest time I finally feel this. Well I guess that's the normal process...If you have been giving for the longest time, if you have been understanding and all of those remained unrequited in the end the giver will feel tired. Honestly somehow I am glad I am now feeling this, it means that I am getting there. For the longest time I have tried to understand even if they were beyond understanding, I gave and gave even if I wasn't getting anything in return. Finally now tiredness envelopes me.

This time its gonna be me first...I may sound selfish but that's how it should really be. All those times I thought of others first. I've tried to put myself behind even if it is something I wanted the most. This time its not gonna happen anymore unless I'll be getting exactly the same gesture.

Well I guess that's the proper chain... give and take! It isn't always giving and giving and giving without getting anything in return. I have learned my lesson. And I am just really grateful that this is how I feel right now. It means that the tide is turning.

Finally, I have awakened.

Friday, July 2, 2010

Tired and Frustrated

I really have some streaks of bad luck the past few weeks. I am so dead tired and I just wish I could take a damn week off just by myself. I am supposed to be enjoying the shores of Infanta, Quezon right now unfortunately with some streaks of bad luck here I am. Mom told me not to leave the kids behind. God, why do I always have to be the one to get to worry about them. Ever since I had my first born, I never had a vacation in my life. No out of towns. And nope I haven't bought a single thing for me, something that I really want... haayyy...It has always the kids first.... Now here I am stuck in the house again because I have to look after them and we only have one nanny. Leaving them to her is a big no no because that would be really too much. Don't get me wrong, I don't despise my nanny, in fact I am very thankful to have her. Just imagine that she has been doing the works of two people for the past 5 months and even though she complains most of the times, she still has not left us, considering the fact that she has lots of place to go to with a much bigger pay. She cares about my kids, the way a blood relation would care for them. I feel so blessed to have her. God if she's another person, she would have left us a long time ago. Delayed salary and heavy load of chores, imagine taking care of three kids and house chores... that is just damn too much. Haay why the hell am I living a very complicated and frustrating life? Geeez...

When I was a young girl, I have dreamt of a simple and happy life. I dreamt of having a happy family where I would go home at the end of the day and my kids are there along with my better half. I dream of spending the weekends having barbeque with them or doing out of towns with the entire family. I dreamt of having a partner who will take care of me and the kids. Someone whom I can depend on and someone who will be my rock when everything becomes wavy. Someone who will never allow anyone to get between us. Haay I am such a romantic fool. But I am proud of that. I failed with my recent relationship but I promise myself that I won't fail again. Next time I will definitely make sure that I will be with the one who can understand me and love me as a whole. Well I am positive that there is somebody out there who shares the same ideals with mine.... for future applicants, here are my standards: I dont want a guy who drinks alcohol, yup especially those who do drink till dawn and would come home in the mornings even if they already have kids. That is so irresponsible, don't give me a damn reason that you have problems because for all you know your partner may be encountering a heavier burden than you and yet still thought of the kids first. Yes I need a real father. 2nd, I want a guy who will choose me over his friends. Call me selfish but I don't want my partner to make me feel insecure by choosing his friend over me especially when I already said that I feel jealous about a girl. 3rd, I want a guy who will be my best friend, someone whom I could run to when the world seems to go against me. And last I want somebody who is a believer... This adage may seem old but true enough there is values in people who believes in Supreme Being. The family that prays together stays together. By birth I am a Catholic, at this point of time I am now a pagan but I believe in Supreme Being. I have lots of flaws and I want my partner to accept that, the way that I would accept his flaws. We all have short comings. I want a guy who heads home right after work and gets contented by just playing with the kids while waiting for his dinner to be served. No drinking and no smoking, apart from spending money, what else can you get from there? Nothing. I know that somewhere out there, there is someone made especially just for me and I know I will have the kind of family I dreamt about. As I end this I enclose a prayer and later tonight I will find a star where I can keep my wish that one day I will have the kind of man and family that I wish for.